‘It Hurts So Much’ — 90 Day Fiance’s Akinyi Obala Confesses She Is Struggling To Survive Thanksgiving Without Her Loved One By Her Side!. What Happened? 😭💔
Akinyi Obaya of 90 Day Fiance recently shared her sorrow with fans in her social media post about Thanksgiving. After ups and downs in her fertility journey, she welcomed her first child, Rue, with husband Benjamin this February. In September 2024, she broke the positive news. Fans blessed their unborn daughter at that moment.
Akinyi’s postpartum struggles have been no less than a saga. After giving birth, she again got admitted to the hospital. Her recovery almost took an emotional toll since she was diagnosed with mastitis, which is a painful breast infection. It commonly occurs in breastfeeding moms. She posted a picture months ago to show her bloody clothes. Did Akinyi still suffer from the same condition, or is she distressed for something else?
90 Day Fiance: Akinyi Shares Why Thanksgiving 2025 Has Hit Her Hard!
A day ago, Akinyi posted on Instagram about her family not spending Thanksgiving 2025. She shared a series of pictures that have her daughter, husband, and her mom. She wrote a lengthy caption. The 90 Day Fiance celeb revealed that her mom had passed away this year, so she mourned the loss and did not celebrate the festival.
The first line of the caption read, “This Thanksgiving feels different.” She called her late mother her biggest supporter, best friend, and safe place. Unfortunately, losing her devastated her. She said she still misses her. Luckily, she embraced motherhood this year, which gave her a strong reason to celebrate happy occasions.
Giving birth to Rue has really reminded Akinyi that she has to be a good new mommy. In deep sorrow, she also felt new life, new joy, new reasons to breathe again. She is grateful for the family she now has with Benjamin. So this year has been full of hard things, as much as the blessings have helped them heal.
Akinyi explained that this Thanksgiving for her meant to hold both the pain of loss and the beauty of new chapters. The TLC star was in disbelief of losing her mother suddenly, but she found a purpose in her child. Her mom’s passing broke her heart many times, and living with the memories could have been very hard. But family is her gift to feel blessed.
